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Celine Diaz's avatar

It gave me so much comfort knowing there are other people who also walk through this world with a similar weightiness, sensitivity, and perpetual search for meaning. I’ve been having existential crises lately, and you articulated it well: it’s like reaching for something vague and undefined, but perpetually there, just out of grasp, haunting you. I’ve often envied people with simpler dispositions like my mom, who told me she’d never bothered pondering about the direction or meaning of her life, but found it easy to be happy. I’ve often envied people for whom satisfaction came naturally, like a baseline in their personality. I feared I would never feel content if I was in this constant state of searching; it feels like a heavy way to exist. But I’ve come to accept that people like us — sensitive souls that are prone to melancholy — are simply wired differently. It is both a blessing and a curse. But our searching nature is what allows us to reflect deeply and help others navigate the complexities of life as we stumble along ourselves. As burdensome as this feels sometimes, it is also our gift. Thanks for reminding me that I’m not alone. Reading your words was like reading a diary entry of my own.

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Margins LLC's avatar

A very positive piece. Yes, one feels uncomfortable because they don't know their "purpose" but it's for us to give meaning to our life!

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