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Camilla Fogle's avatar

Thank you. I've never had to use mind-numbing things because I automatically numbed myself to avoid pain. I've done too much of that. I've stopped looking for happiness in things. My task (whether I've recognized it nor not) has been to get rid of that protective shield of numbness. For me, it ended up being a prison cell. I'm trying to dismantle it but it's a slow go. On the bright side, I am experiencing moments of full joy from time to time. I'm happy with that progress.

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Jon Soto's avatar

And I am happy to hear about your progress! Keep embracing those moments of joy.

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Paolo Peralta's avatar

Damn great stuff my friend

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Jon Soto's avatar

Thanks Paolo!

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Gabriela C's avatar

This is as good as a cup of coffee ☕

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Cheryl D's avatar

You are a beautiful writer. Thank you.

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Jon Soto's avatar

Thank you!

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Bill Renno's avatar

The middle ground between resistance/reactivity and apathy is equanimity…in the fullest most expansive sense of the word.

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Regan Roberts's avatar

Brilliant and on point post. Apathy is one of the biggest issues today.

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Jon Soto's avatar

Thanks Regan!

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Peacefulturtle's avatar

Beautiful work, thank you

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Jamie's avatar

this is beautifully written and very true. I need to remind myself to take an internet break and try to enjoy the world around me. The 24-hour news cycle is absolutely detrimental to my mental health.

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